我和格蘭姆（Graham）經過12年馬拉松愛情長跑之後決定結婚了，婚禮的宗教儀式定在2001年9月11日上午10點，地點在華爾街上的"三一"教堂(Trinity Church)內舉行。12年前，當我24歲本命年的這一天這一刻，我與格蘭姆在東京邂逅，之後這位華爾街男人的愛情改變了我整個的人生。12年，對中國人來說是一個輪回，有著周而復始的特殊意義，在迎來我36歲本命年這永遠的紀念日裏，我們要結爲百年好合，真正的永不分離。
After a twelve-year marathon love affair, Graham and I had decided to get married. The date was set for September 11, 2001; we’d be married in Wall Street’s Trinity Church at 10 in the morning. Graham and I had met in Tokyo. I was twenty-four then and completing the second of my "celestial cycles". Graham's love changed me and my life forever. To Chinese,
twelve years mean once cycle has come to a close; twelve years completed signifies new beginnings. In my thirty-sixth year, at the close of the third of my “celestial cycles”, we had chosen to join our hearts forever,
'til death do us part.
